We often lash out in negativity when relationships end, not valuing what the relationship brought into our lives. We hold a grudge that it didn’t last forever.
When someone in our life come for a reason, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed .They have come to assist us through a difficulty, to provide us with guidance and support, to aid us physically, emotionally or spiritually. They may seem like a God send, and they are. They are there for a reason we need them to be. Then, without any wrong doing on our part or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end. Sometimes they die, sometimes they walk away. Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand. What we must realise is that our need is met, our desire fulfilled, their work is done. The prayer you have sent up has been answered and now it is time to move on .Some people come into your life for a season, because your turn has come to share, grow or learn. They bring you an experience of peace and joy and happiness .They may teach you something that you have never done .They usually give us an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it .It is real, But only for a SEASON!!
Life time relationships teach you life time lessons ,things we must build upon in order to have a solid emotinol foundation .Our job is to accept the lesson , love the person and put what you have learned to use in all other realtionships and areas of our life ....
So when some on come for a Reason and Season Cherish those Memories ..........
Hey Vasudha...
ReplyDeleteYour thought is really awesum and really true. Its happened in my life. I met a girl for a very short time and she walked away. But I learned alot from that relationship alot.