All Things i love turn to be bad and all the right things i never like :(

 Till date ,i keep observing that , all things i like turn to be bad,unhealthy !!!....either the kind of friends i choose or the kind of clothes or the kind of food ...as i grew i realised and was sure that my choice was bad ...like if i loved the design of the cloth the quality was not gud , if i went by taste of the food the health factor disappears  :( so i made a point from then i never make 100% choice.
          Then came my college days where i was independent to choose my own things but due to my fear and my strong belief about  my wrong  choice   ... i  couldnt get close to things which i like as i knew eventually they turn bad nor i liked things which are good as i dont have interest in good things ....

So i get attracted to bad first, but then the  gud thing is that  i knw thts bad!!! so i knew how to avoid it ...and at the same time though i knew those are good things as i didnt like i never tried them .......so as a habbit i never choose 100% anything , i make sure i get an approval from my mom or dad or my bro or my hubby now ....

In case of People may be i like them intially (but i knw in future i will not  like them ) but when i get to know them closely i find them either boring or bad or something which i dont like and with people whom i feel they are not upto the mark initially slowly i discover certain new things about them and it makes them intresting ..

So when i say next time that i like you ...now you know how it can turn at the end .....

Har Ek Friend Zaroori Hota Hai

When i drive down to my office I see this Big hoardings of Airtel New Ad Campaign regarding F.R.I.E.N.D.S and the ads on air too bring wide smile, as everytime it reminds me of some or the other friend of mine ....I just lost into thoughts counting different kind of friends i have ....and MUST list for any one

This friend of mine is full of life and when ever he is around he makes people forget all the tensions....he know what i love and make sure that i do things what i love atleast once in a while and his philosphy is First u be happy to make people around u happy .....

Another Friend of mine who calls me to give me the details of happening programs in National geography and History channel she says we should know the history and about various important things in this world

He knows i never see news nor paper so he makes sure when ever there is important news going on, he  keeps me updated so that i dont get into trouble due to lack of knowledge

She keeps me on toes that i dont gain weight and gives me all fashion tips to be beautiful always and i adore how she teaches me fashion

I can take him granted and he is my 4am friend i know i can irritate him , shout at him but still i knw he still bears all my nakras

With him i can talk hours together ,it not need to be anything important it can be any topic under sky .

The one who gives knowledge about all the new gadgets and there updations .

My gossip friend who gives me details of whats happening and who is seeing whom ? without which i will be so clueless of the all the gossip

This Drama queen who entertains at every party and get togethers with her charm without whom the party goes so dull

This friend of mine with whom i share all my secrets and still they reamin secrets

She is the one who know the evil side of me , what iam actually and what i think about whom

This friend of mine helps me with the delicious recipes so that i will be the queen of my kitchen with all the appreciation

With her i can talk all nonsense and we can together give enough galis to guys around we crib ,fight .She is the one with whom i talk abt all types of guys ...

That friend with whom i chat just to kill the time .

This friend whom i know he will there for u no matter what .

The friend with whom i talk very very rarely but still when i talk i can talk hours together

The coward friend of mine ....teek hai still he is my friend oye .

The Selfish friend ...humm i feel these kind of friends are very important as they will be as measurement to check how good other friends are ....

He always give me big lectures about how to save where to save, what are the new investment plans

With whom i love to go to shop and who shares common love for the food .

The friend who praises me for all small deeds of mine , though i know i dont deserve i enjoy them,,,hardly people prasie why to be too modest ?

friends who share common intrests and organises the event or party perfectly how u wanted ....

The friend who by listening to ur voice can guess whts going on with u ...

The friend who encourages in ur career and gives all that gyaan abt life

This friend of mine whom i just adore the way he loves social service and introduced me to other world

The friend whom i never met but still remain one of the close friend and the friend whom u meet just once and then u knw she is of ur kind

I think its imp to have all kinds of friends who brings there experiences of life to us and keep us going , may be in some realtions u will be a giver and in some a taker ,as life comes in full circle i m sure,we will be exposed to all kind of feelings and friends some times u give and some times u take ...as the ad speaks Har ek friend zaroori hota hai !!!

5 MINUTES

5 minutes ......What comes to ur mind when you hear you have 5 more minutes......can u believe this 5 minutes can attimes become your live most finest moments ......some of them may

Why do we need that last 5 minutes sleep and that makes our sleep so complete ??? For me the most important 5 minutes will be when early in the morning Arun wakes me up and i ask for another 5 minutes sleep and if am not allowed that 5 minutes , my complete 8 hrs sleep is ruined ...why does that 5 minutes sleep is so special ???

When lovers meet and talk hours together but when one of them bid gud bye and the other one asks ....do wait for just 5 minutes ....though they were together for hrs ,these 5 minutes remain very special......and these are never ending 5 minutes .....

We do remember having stage shows and elecution competions and when organisers say in next 5minutes its your turn how butterflies fly in your stomach ...those 5 minutes you try to remind all ur topics or steps and tension ,exitement you feel in those 5 minutes is the best ......

And this one is so regular ..when we write our exams and examiner say...you have last 5minutes and you will have almost 2 essay answers to write ,,,remember the tension , confusion to select what to write ......and after the time how me request for another 5 minutes mam ......

And when there is a breakup and when one asks for that last 5 minutes time to talk to u for one last time and how he needs to explain in those 5 minutes how important she is and how he cant live without her .......

So next time when you get those 5 minutes utilise it to its best never underestimate 5 minutes .......

Little Things in Life ........

When do we feel more happy ?? when your boss gives you a hike or when your boss remembers your Bday and send wishes .....If u comes under first category dont read furhter .....In our lifes we have major goals and to acheive them most of us struggle all our live but in this long path, little things are one which make us feel happy .

When do we feel that we r lucky on earth ...

When our car is last car to pass the green signal and the red signal is on
When the train comes immedieatly as we get into station
When we just get into our destination and the rain is on
When you buy something and the next day the price goes up
When you get a seat in a bus in a rush hour
When your car gets in trouble and the repair shop is next to u
When the book you picked up is the last book in the store

Here i mean to say in life rather than big and costly things small things matter a lot ...

How long was that we go and say our loved ones how much they mean to us ,instead of just giving a costly gift .One appreciation , one adimiring look makes someones day .Why do we hesitate to aprreciate our collegues when they really do a fair job , why dont we say some one that they really look elegant and beautiful when they really do .One call of concern , one talk of assurance , one walk to care ...makes some ones day ....Most of us may cant give costly gifts or the best of best things to our loved ones but trust me these little things matter a lot than rest of the things ,,i strongly feel realtions are made and even broke basing on these smaller things in life ...its all about being happy in life and if these little things make u HAPPY then they no longer called as little things :)

Go out and start apprecitaing people for there best work and break that silence ...

In Life we meet People for a Reason and for a Season

We often lash out in negativity when relationships end, not valuing what the relationship brought into our lives. We hold a grudge that it didn’t last forever.

When someone in our life come for a reason, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed .They have come to assist us through a difficulty, to provide us with guidance and support, to aid us physically, emotionally or spiritually. They may seem like a God send, and they are. They are there for a reason we need them to be. Then, without any wrong doing on our part or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end. Sometimes they die, sometimes they walk away. Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand. What we must realise is that our need is met, our desire fulfilled, their work is done. The prayer you have sent up has been answered and now it is time to move on .Some people come into your life for a season, because your turn has come to share, grow or learn. They bring you an experience of peace and joy and happiness .They may teach you something that you have never done .They usually give us an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it .It is real, But only for a SEASON!!


Life time relationships teach you life time lessons ,things we must build upon in order to have a solid emotinol foundation .Our job is to accept the lesson , love the person and put what you have learned to use in all other realtionships and areas of our life ....


So when some on come for a Reason and Season Cherish those Memories ..........