In Life we meet People for a Reason and for a Season

We often lash out in negativity when relationships end, not valuing what the relationship brought into our lives. We hold a grudge that it didn’t last forever.

When someone in our life come for a reason, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed .They have come to assist us through a difficulty, to provide us with guidance and support, to aid us physically, emotionally or spiritually. They may seem like a God send, and they are. They are there for a reason we need them to be. Then, without any wrong doing on our part or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end. Sometimes they die, sometimes they walk away. Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand. What we must realise is that our need is met, our desire fulfilled, their work is done. The prayer you have sent up has been answered and now it is time to move on .Some people come into your life for a season, because your turn has come to share, grow or learn. They bring you an experience of peace and joy and happiness .They may teach you something that you have never done .They usually give us an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it .It is real, But only for a SEASON!!


Life time relationships teach you life time lessons ,things we must build upon in order to have a solid emotinol foundation .Our job is to accept the lesson , love the person and put what you have learned to use in all other realtionships and areas of our life ....


So when some on come for a Reason and Season Cherish those Memories ..........

2010--- A word with u ----GUD BYE

Note to the year 2010

2010:: what a yr were u ...till date i never knew the meaning of pain. Thanks to the environment I have grown I never had a chance to see so called MEAN people .U took the liberty to show me what is life and how else people can be. U made me undergo all the feelings which I never knew that they actually even exist!!! apart from just fun,joy, and happiness. U made me to stand and notice who r my people & who r not, INFACT how many r actually HUMAN.You took me through all shades of people, In the process i lost all the hopes but yet dint fall as I even saw people who r equally gud and hw selfless they are ….Just like Angels ……
U made me Strong ,,u taught me all those lessons which ur frnds couldn’t taught me all those past 25 yrs . There were days i lost hope , but thanks for all my people who were with me and special THANKS for those people who made ME realise whats pain IS

2010 u made me ready for all coming years , hereafter i don’t pray for a great New year ,,,as i am ready to take it --as it comes ....U made be confident ,strong and u actually taught me to be HARD .Thanks for coming into my life and showing me what actually people call LIFE... Its because of u I knew that I actually have Patience and confident about myself and I can overcome whatever time stores for me …..Im gonna enjoy the rest of u until 2011. THANKS AND GOODBYE…….. and let me say u I have OVERCOME u 

MY FIRST LOVE

Theoretically first love can happen in any age ,But most people had fallen in love for the first time when they were teenagers. That exciting new experience most of us remember very well during all our life. Than a teenager falls in love and it happens for the first time he/she feels all it’s ups and downs for the first time
either. In that age we mostly enjoy ourselves and study the new emotions inside than show much interest for the inner world of our first Love . Very often we cherish these memories a lot, sometimes idealize them, and remember the first love as something very innocent and fragile. It can be any anyone .some VJ or Film Hero or that Romantic serial Lead, The guy next door , ur Teacher or the stranger u saw
for the first time .

Now let me say MY FIRST LOVE EXP But for me its all so special. I saw it for the first time at my Friends place and i must say it was love at First Sight ..i was so impressed that I want to take home immediately. But I couldn’t , the Super sexy design the Bright color style it has. It wowed me enough to be my First love .

Now the problem is to Talk about my First Love with my DAD. But I dint have
enough courage so I kept my love with in me . Now that was the time when I was doing my Intermediate . I joined the college near by and was planning to join St Anns or Vilaa Marry next for my Degree.Now my Dad dint want me to go so far for college and travel in Bus,Ofcourse his main intention was he dint wanted me to travel too much
and get tired ( but the imp thing is he never wanted me to go so far and learn new cultures and have new frnds ) He knws me well So he knws pretty well if he says that he dint want me to Join those colleges I will REBEL so he had this Great Offer for me with a deal. He said if uget the(some decided ) % in Intermedieate u will get a Scooty (MY FIRST LOVE) and u can drive it only until ur present college. I was
too innocent and as Love is Blind I just wanted to Grab the Scooty no matter what so immediealty I forgot about the colleges I wanted to join ..and started to get the % my dad asked ( My dad always gives things only after making sure we are worth of it and if we fail to achieve he never melts and gives the promised gifts ) As I was already in Second yr I had to work double hard to attain the % and I honestly worked hard ..exams time ..My dad was impressed the way I worket hard (Half work is done )

Finally Results time …. I dint got the % which my dad asked for 2 yr but combinely it was not summing up to the % which the deal was made for .That was my First Heart Break . I know I did pretty well in exams and something went horribly wrong and I just got pass marks in Commerce which was Impossible but who willtrust me ..of course we had exams in college regularly which I always use to get 75+ but the marks in Board are final ……..anyways im sure that iam going to write my Improvements but what about now ????? I cant wait even a sec to get My Scooty home . I have enough dream sequences of it ..now what about my dreams ??? I Started Crying , Weeping and was speaking my heart out there with my mom (emotinal drama)tht how hard I worked for My Scoty and how the bloody examiner dint go trough my paper well and just gave a pass marks ( Cursed enough ) And as I knw my DAD never give gifts if u are not worthy enough But this time it was little different , his actual purpose was that I should concentrate well on studies as I was college Secretary and
most of the time I was into the Extracurricular activates and other main Intention was he want me to do Degree in Same college

So He Bought me my BRAND NEW SCOOTY . I still remember the day when I got to see ,feel my First Love .It has a shiny Silver color as if its just out of Paradise for a ride, how crazy me and brother were to drive it .I proudly showcased my SCOOTY in my college, Appartments, Friends .i was one of the first Girls in my Batch who has a Scooty so naturally I was noticed (False Prestige ) MY brother till date curses me of how I cried and made things happen and how he achieved all what ever DAD
said. But who cares I had my First love with me and as people say First Love is alway remain Special


PS : My Dad gifted my First Love without me, asking him and finally
I attained the % after I wrote the Improvements so ALL IZZ WELL

FIRST RAIN

First Rain brings much needed respite from the blistering heat by the cool and refreshing showers. Doesn’t First Rain remind us of our childhood days when we use to make paper boats and play with them in puddle of water formed across the street or get scolded by mom for dirtying our school dress, shoes by jumping into to muddy pot holes while returning from school.,,, and our prayers to rain God so that we can bunk school to escape from the assignments .

I have very special memories of rain , as a child I was crazy about raincoats and my dad use to get us colorful raincoats and when ever it drizzels hot pakodas , jeelebis and Biryani is a must . even now it rains it reminds me of all those memories,,, as kids in school we all use to get drenched in water …..and comes the college Then in teenage First Rain sets your heart pounding with love, You want to walk in the rain hand in hand with that ‘special someone’ not worrying about the world .Then sitting in wayside Chat bandar and having hot chat , and hot samosas Yes First Rain evokes the romantic person in you and you feel a sense of freedom to run around without caring a damn about anything.

Long walks and drives in rain has its own magic ….. Rains have started in hyd early this week but due to work I dint get chance to enjoy the long drive so I made it a point not to miss my ride this weekend ,,, I started towards Airport road as I start I can already see the love birds already taking the joy of rain ,I love the fog which covers the glass , droplets falling on car windows ,the hot bajiis, smooky corns roadside welcoming me all the way ,,, thunders wishing me and the wet roads with bushy trees either way of the roads talking to each other by its extended branches .The actual color of trees can be seen in the rainy season the mushy green just attracts the vision , the leaves with droplets of water and the aroma of the wet sand drives me totally crazy ,,,,, the FM to takes it share for the romantic ride by playing the best rain and romantic songs , it will be a musical feast by all FM channels my favourite no is “vallantha thullintha “ from gharshana.
I loved my long drive by enjoying the rain , green trees , wide roads , I just love the atmosphere of Rainy season and the whole greenery in itself iam looking forward to enjoy more of it ,,,,,, I think every one of us love rains and iam no exception so hey rain “ NUVUVASTANTE NENU VADANTANA” ?

MANALI - PARADISE , HEAVEN, what else can i name it ?

I was fascinated by snow all my life but my first encounter with snow happened this March. Manali popularly described as the Switzerland of India is the most visited destination on India tours and visitors come from all around the world to enjoy holidays. It is a location with the perfect beauty of nature, weather, and scenic natural beauty and picturesque view of mountains. Captivating view of the snowy mountains, flowers adding magical perfume to the air, apple orchards, gushing of waterfall etc make this heavenly place the perfect destination to enjoy holidays for visitors and couples. Vashist springs, Hadimba Temple, Beas Kund, Rohtang pass, Solang pass etc are the major tourist attraction of Manali
We had a tough time to plan a trip to Manali as it takes almost 4 days travel if you go by Train . You need to go until Delhi and from there you have to go to Manali which is another 14 hrs Journey .We cheked out all the travel agencys but the budget they gave was as good as Indian Budget so we thought to discover ourselves.

We reached Delhi and then we need to reach Manali either by individual cab or through Bus .We reached early in the morning and buses start only in night . Agencys there offer buses with packages with additional services like room + food + car for 2 couples for local sightseeing along with delhi – manali to and fro . So we opted Individual cab so tht we can have the advantage of our preffered locations .

We started at Morning 9am from Delhi – Chandigarh- Punjab – Himachal Pradesh and MANALI . We reached Manali at night 12.Our Driver was too gud at his job and was careful at same time. It was chilling cold and though we packed all our warm clothes still we had to stop at the wollen store and get all necessary stuff . As we reached the at 12pm we were too tired to search for a hotel which is in mid of orchards so we resumed to sleep .But next day we realized there are more exotic locations so we moved to this beautiful hotel which is in middle of apple orchards and snow mountains . We started to Solang Valley. I never saw anything as beautiful as such beautiful locations all my life . The river , trees flowers , mountains with snow all over it was Lifetime experience for sure. Once past the major chaos like huge traffic, the whole setting was ethereal.Bright sunshine, green trees braving the cold of the Himalayas & standing tall, wind whizzing past :-) We have been suggested to take ski dress and paragaliding set and guide to help us in particular shop , now drivers try to make as much money as possible so we have to enquire beforehand for all the games and slides.

The complete route for Sollang valley was like entering Heavan. We started with skiing and then Paragliding , zorbing, snow biking, mule and yak rides , the sun was dipping by now & the wind was fiercer. then we were back to the hotel they had a DJ and it was packed with both Indian and foreign tourists . We had great time dancing . Next day we are scheduled to visit all temples but I was to excited to visit the snow again and again so we went back again to SolangValley and then Hadimba temple . The weather was quite pleasant there (obviously). We first went to the Hadimba Temple. It is up a hill, about 1.5kms away from the main market. After a while the path goes inside the pine trees, which was quite refreshing. This is an ancient temple, a wife of Bhima, sister of Hadimb. It was for the first time a saw a temple for Rakshasi , It really looks like the temple of a 'Rakshasi', in the sense that the outer region has some horns and skulls as decorations!!! From here, we went back to the Tibetan monastery. It is a small beautiful monastery, located right at the heart of the city. After hanging around there for a while, we went to the 'Van Vihar', a preserved forest area with full of pine trees. There were lot of crowd at the entrance and nearby area. We went further inside and selected a cool place to take some rest. There was the Beas river flowing nearby. We sat there watching the river flow. We were really enjoying the pleasant weather there. After resting in the forest for a while, we moved to the banks of river Beas. Rohatnag Pass was closed as that was not the season .Food in Manali is not so yummy but you have Punjabi Hotels all over so I enjoyed all that yummy Punjabi dishes. For all the games I suggest never take a package as individual negotiations saves you lot of money. Me being great lover of trecking enquired about trecking but to my utter disappointment we need 2 more days for that L (We never have such understanding boses for tht xtra leave) . For River Rafting we need to reach back Kulu . Manali - Kulu was such a beautiful journey. It rain heavily .And the whole climate was so romantic I think Kulu-Manali is the most recommended place for Homeymoon. It creates all the majic and has spell bound beauty. I dint miss my Sathiya song at Beas river nor Jab we met song While Mountain biking J .We started back to Delhi at evening 6 this time driver drove more fast and we are in Delhi by Morning 5am. I loved Manali so much that I want to visit again and again in different seasons, this time yea I will do trekking and River Rafting . Ladakh and Kashmir are my Fav destinations too . Advice for u guys -----------MUST GO !

Best Decission of MY LIFE

Iam Vasudha. Vasudha MBA. Its sounds so perfect (atleast for me )! Now dont expect me from any IIM colleges i did my MBA from a normal B School .This is my first post so i was thinking what i need to say about myself which really make some sense .So my thoughts finally landed at my Education."Education" i often dont understand the literal meaning of it , for me education is not a degree nor a road to earn a fat pay cheque. Education for me is knowledge and which teaches emapthy and rationalism.(I think iam getting carried away to define things which is not my job.) So let me come to the point MY DAD LOVES MATHS i dint know whether now i should call fate or just by coincidence -i neither have any intrest nor iam i good at MATHS. I hope this is a very common problem in every household with every second child.

But this was a not a small issue in my household. My dad always want to see me as ENGINEER . I dont know if that word has some magic or pride attached to it ? The moment he pronunces it his eyes have all happiness and pride ! always in my school days dad insisted me to become one .As i said im bad with numbers and i simply HATE it , and the fact that my dad loves Maths took my hatred towards Maths to next level. In school teachers too love only students who are good at maths and science ( Funniest part is even arts and language teachers show same attitude) and beacuse of this attitude of teachers my hatred towards Maths reached extreme level where i started hating people who are good at maths.

Finally when iam done with my schooling i came of out of pretty decent percentile in which that bloody maths also had a share of its own saying aloud "ur percentage is complete only with me ".I immediatly determined for life time that i need to get rid of THIS, only to realise later that iam out of this idiotic number game only to be in a "ocean" of numbers from a "cup" of it, which already shown me enough oceans. The thought or just WORD "MPC" chills run down my spine , infact not just down, up ,sideways and all ways indeed. But intially i coulndt diassapoint my Dad who already started thinking and warning about what the percentage i need to get into a nice so called "ENGINEERING COLLEGE" so i finally landed in dirty college with a dirty group which i hated all my schooling and that letter being in first MPC . When ever i looked at maths book i felt as if it said " lol u finally need to hold me and be with me all the day and night and in both in and out of college" I had no option but thinking to make it as my friend , and being honest for my dads sake i made sincere efforts to do my best which turned futile. Lecturers in the college starts the class as if learning those stupid numbers is the ONLY MOTIVE OF OUR LIVES and people who are bad at that can immediately think of going deep underground infact if there is another underground under ground thats the place for people who who are not good at MATHS!

And the students who are good with the subject already starts wearing the hat "ATTITUDE" and its written all over the face. They feel as if they already became some great Engineers . and the worst part comes when relatives comes home. They come to my house, eat have good time and end up in giving me comparisions about different cousins and what they did in there life and what I should do to become like THEM. Bloody hell! I want to slamm the door on there face but the best i can is to just imagine doing it ! Days went on and months followed , after 2 months of trying to adjust to that subject i finnaly said to myself i have tried my best and I GIVE UP. and went staright to dad and said i want to join arts at that point of time i felt myself like LOOSER though i should feel im getting out of this SHIT. But my dad's reaction took me for suprise he simply said select a college on ur own and group as well. But he was dissapointed for sure !

Then came BEST DECISION OF MY LIFE . I selected arts group. I felt as if reunited with a long last lover whom i was desperate to meet since ages, i knw iam being more filmy but thats what i felt exacatly . And the college i selected was a strict christian and girls college. As i already missed the regular Avademic Months i just concentrated to get my name enrolled in some college and i ended up in a girls college at that point of time i dint have any thoughts about either girls or a co-ed college. THIS COLLEGE changed my life BIGTIME . There was no maths there were only things which i was best at thats -Arts, economics, Dance , Debates, Elections . My first yr i discovered a new ME , people started appreciating me for all little success i attained in the college and many treated me as a DIVA but this was all inside college gate once im out of it , bloody looks of neighbours and realtives as if i have eloped with some dirty looking wage labour , there looks make me feel ashamed for me doing nothing . They show all there pity for my Parents for the biggest mistake i have ever done changing my group, which later they realised that to be my best decison.

Later on i completeed my inter then degree and in this whole process i learn so many new things and interacted with the actual people apart from just mere books. which inclined me towards MBA . I have many friends who have inspired to do my MBA some how i ended up getting a MBA certifacate

Now after 3 yrs after completing college i have a decent job with a decent Package, here the point is not how much you earn or how well setlled in your life. The things is did you u follow ur heart and did u do things which u love most .As these days iam seeing many parents forcing there children for this kind of groups or spoiling them by getting them seats with huge donations, when they cant get seat it was damm clear that they are unfit . I mean those 2 yrs of inter are so precious and cant be replacsed so easily . Iam not trying to show the preview of "TARE ZAMMEN PAR" but when i look back iam so happy that my parents actually allowed me to do what i want .In the duecourse i understood the imp of Maths as a logic and my due respect to the subject . But what abt students who still do enginering with all those grace marks . Guys out there- chill out follow your heart , dont do things for the sake of society nor for relatives. Be the best even if you are doing the last cadre.

Now when the same old relatives come to me to suggest there kids i feel pity for them . And i say its not MBA and its not any other Master programme which defines U but in turn U who has to define that Particular education. students who are good at respective subjects dont treat others who are not good at studies as if they belong to a different species . They have there own different talents and one day u just cant help but get suprised seeing them in there TRUE ACTION .Its all zeal and passion which takes you to next levels iam on my way to reach my desitation , hey all Engineers over there no Hard feelings . I LOVE U ALL.

PS: MY father is still happy with my sucess though i dint turn up to be a engineer , which is most important to me